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Shellye Archambeau talks about lessons she learned. She had a unique approach to mentors- find a mentor but do not ask directly whether he will mentor you, instead simply act like he is your mentor, ask questions and cultivate the relationship. This is because most people think mentoring is a committment and will take a lot of time which they consider scarce. Suggestions include: to ask someone have you any thoughts on how...? to get people's idea on doing something. She suggests being sincere and acting on it, and thanking that person, as a great way to get them to respond in the future. Getting people to believe they want to do something is importnt and getting them to believe that it can be done, is a great way to get people inspired to achieve new things. Reducing fear, while all the time being clear about what is expected, produces the best results.Taking risks, venturing out into the unknown, is part of all this because only by getting out and doing new things when you still feel you are not 100% ready, can one learn, grow and create value.