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Christopher Miller says time can strengthen our sense of purpose instead of erasing it. That our being here and what we do can help shape not just our life but hat of coming generations. What he calls the Object Lens is a perspective that comes with lived experience and this can only develop and mature with the passing of time, so that as we age there is this additional dimension that we can bring to our life. George Washington as he assumed the presidency also described how this makes life richer at an older age than during the younger years. In practical terms this means accepting the current situation as a starting point, not diminished by this in any way as we age. Not to sell ourselves short and to consider so valuable all that we have learned through trial and error, and suffering. Minds of other people are not waht we can control. Adapting is essential and dispelling feelings of despondence by softening expectations of children and others, deepening and building new social networks with peers for a feeling of acceptance and belonging. ...